Raising a Family While Living Sustained by God (Rather Than a Wage)
Tensie Hernandez and Dennis Apel, longtime Catholic Workers, talk about starting a hospitality house, living and parenting in voluntary poverty, and "vigils" at the local air force base
In the Gospel of Matthew, when Jesus’s followers express worry about having sufficient food, drink, and clothes, Jesus answers, “Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you” (6:33). What if you decided to wager your life on Jesus’ claim? What if you decided to live as if those words were just as true today? Where would God lead you? What would your days look like? How would you provide for your children?
Tensie Hernandez and Dennis Apel decided almost thirty years ago to wager their lives on those words of Jesus. They left Los Angeles with just $300 to their names, drove up the coast of California, and found themselves led to Guadalupe, a town of 8,000 people, mostly undocumented farm workers. “The Spirit just kept opening doors,” said Tensie. Those doors led to creating a Catholic Worker house of hospitality called Beatitude House, as well as a free medical clinic, a food distribution center, and a clothing distribution program. Doors also opened to parenting two children and decades of monthly non-violent resistance or “vigils” outside the gates of the nearby Vandenburg Air Force Base. That led to a four-month prison sentence for Dennis, and a supreme court case.
How did their call unfold? What have been the blessings and challenges of raising kids while living a life of voluntary poverty?1 Reflecting on nearly three decades in Guadalupe, what are they most proud of? What have they learned about drawing on the wisdom of Dorothy Day without making an idol of her or the Catholic Worker model? What is their advice for others feeling drawn to create similar communities?
I talked about these questions and more with Dennis and Tensie. Having made that wager thirty years ago, I was struck by Dennis and Tensie’s gratitude and sense of abundance. I hope your heart will be touched, too.
Helpful Links
If you want to support Tensie and Dennis’ work, you can write a check to “Beatitude House” and mail it to Beatitude House Catholic Worker, 267 Campodonico Ave, Guadalupe, CA 93434. If you want to receive their newsletter, drop me a note in the Substack comments with your email address (or through my website contact page) and I’ll pass along your info to them.
Read more about Dennis’ decades of nonviolent resistance at the Vandenburg Airforce Base and the ensuing Supreme Court case
Listen here to Tensie share more on the “Coffee With Catholic Workers” podcast about her call to be a Catholic Worker and the ministry at Beatitudes House
Listen here to “Worker Kids”, including Dennis and Tensie’s daughter Rozelle, share about their experiences growing up in Catholic Worker communities. You can hear parents reflect on raising kids in community in part two of the episode
In this podcast Dennis talks about the inspiration of Ched Myers’ writing. Here is a link to Ched’s books, articles, classes, and blog.
The Aims and Means of the Catholic Worker describe “voluntary poverty” in this way: “The mystery of poverty is that by sharing in it, making ourselves poor in giving to others, we increase our knowledge and belief in love.” (Dorothy Day) By embracing voluntary poverty, that is, by casting our lot freely with those whose impoverishment is not a choice, we would ask for the grace to abandon ourselves to the love of God. It would put us on the path to incarnate the Church’s ‘preferential option for the poor.’”